Yes, anger again, same as last year. A cycle is kind of repeating: in the winter I am depressed and start taking fluoxetin; the medicine slowly but regularly starts having effect and equalises my moods, making me happier and stronger every day. It takes about 2-3 months to get stable. I am miserable in October-November-December, then from January things start getting better. Then around early spring (about now) I start becoming cocky, and angry at things and events; it is as if I was gaining too much confidence, and I can face any event or situation; I need to be careful, because at work I risk to respond abruptly to people (and to the Management) and I know I will regret if I do. So I tell myself “stay humble, don’t explode”. So I do. I try my best. So far I succeed, but sometimes I am really eager to give the proper feedback to people. I play it in my head over and over, as to rehearse the perfect speech.

I remember last year I was angry against W., my ex (the love of my life), for not fighting for our relationship, for letting me go like that; the anger was good to not think of him too much, self defense I reckon. As I already wrote in another page, I’d rather be angry than depressed. And I remember that last year, around late spring, I decided together with my psychiatrist, to start diminishing the dose of antidepressant. Because I was feeling strong, and because I knew I could manage reducing the pills. This year I feel I am doing well again, I feel I could let go of Fluoxetin, but I want to be more careful, and not rush things. I don’t want to end up later this year with a winter coming and depression galloping again in my brain.

Man, it’s so challenging to find a balance. I said from the beginning that I will win this fight, and I will. It feels though like a lifelong battle, that this will be my fight until the end of my days. I must never let my guard down, I must remember that there is always a risk of falling into depression. Like asthma. You have it and then it stays with you; you can calm it down, thame it, but never lower your guard, never underestimate the enemy.